Transcriptions, Transitions of Time, Space and Consciousness.

Lance Drummonds Listening Party for Debut Album Time and Space @ Quad studios

2011-05-10T14:42:00.003-04:00

I had the distinct pleasure of hanging out at Quad Studios for the Time and Space listening party.

Stepping off the elevator I was introduced to a classic production (which he wrote and produced himself) reminding of the 90's ballads I grew up on. The pages that created the album were torn from the chapters in his book love. We got to "Share His Heart"
and were blessed with a live performance of "The Opposite of No" showing the audience that he is more than just a studio performer.
I throughly enjoyed the album and his commitment to his success (investing everything he had into the project) so support my dude the investment will be worth the time.

Back To The Beginnings

2011-05-10T12:16:00.004-04:00

It's how some paths can bring you right back to where you started. I started this blog thinking I wanted to write about style and fashion my primary motivation for coming to NYC initially but like life intentions and plans change.

I've been almost two years, experiencing new places, new experiences, new relationships, all of which I wish I would have documented but the past is gone never to return so I must live in the present. With that I have decided to dedicate this blog to my experiences, interests, and journey through the beautiful language of life. There will of course be style notes as it's very much a part of who I am, but you can also expect to be introduced to a new love (anthropology/sociology) and my old love affair with the literary word.

I was once told that am an ambassador to those who have will never the places I go and to the people that I meet on these adventures who will never visit the places I've come from, and that is how I'm choosing to live my life. To dream for those who have been forced to "wake up", to live for those sentenced to a lifeless existence, love for those who are afraid to let the world see them for who they really are.

Join me on the journey.

Love

A Legend of Love

2011-02-15T00:09:00.006-05:00

In Honor of this day of "Love" I thought I would provide you with the legend of Cupid or "Eros" as he was known in the Greek. His name is the prefix of our word erotic, his mother Venus or "Aphrodite" provides the prefix for the word aphrodisiac, his lover Psyche is precisely where we derive our same word from, coming together they create bliss but I'll let you read the story to discover it's name for yourself.

Envious and jealous of the beauty of a mortal girl named Psyche, Venus asks her son Cupid (known to the Greeks as Eros) to use his golden arrows while Psyche sleeps, so that when she awakens, Venus (Aphrodite in the Greek tradition) would have already placed a vile creature for her to fall in love with. Cupid finally agrees to her commands after a long (and failed) debate. As he flies to Psyche's room at night, he turns himself invisible so no one can see him fly in through her window. He takes pity on her, for she was born too beautiful for her own safety. As he slowly approaches, careful not to make a sound, he readies one of his golden arrows. He leans over Psyche while she is asleep and before he can scratch her shoulder with the arrow, she awakens, startling him, for she looks right into his eyes, despite his invisibility. This causes him to scratch himself with his arrow, falling deeply in love with her. He cannot continue his mission, for every passing second he finds her more appealing. He reports back to Venus shortly after and the news enrages her. Venus places a curse on Psyche that keeps her from meeting a suitable husband, or any husband at that. As she does this, it upsets Cupid greatly, and he decides as long as the curse stays on Psyche, he will no longer shoot arrows, which will cause the temple of Venus to fall.

After months of no one — man or animal — falling in love, marrying, or mating, the Earth starts to grow old, which causes concern to Venus, for nobody praises her for Cupid's actions. Finally, she agrees to listen to Cupid's demands, according him one thing to have his own way. Cupid desires Psyche. Venus, upset, agrees to his demands only if he begins work immediately. He accepts the offer and takes off, shooting his golden arrows as fast as he can, restoring everything to the way it should be. People again fall in love and marry, animals far and wide mate, and the Earth begins to look young once again.
When all continue to admire and praise Psyche's beauty, but none desire her as a wife, Psyche's parents consult an oracle, which tells them to leave Psyche on the nearest mountain, for her beauty is so great that she is not meant for (mortal) man. Terrified, they have no choice but to follow the oracle's instructions. But then Zephyrus, the west wind, carries Psyche away, to a fair valley and a magnificent palace where she is attended by invisible servants until nightfall, and in the darkness of night the promised bridegroom arrives and the marriage is consummated. Cupid visits her every night to sleep with her, but demands that she never light any lamps, since he does not want her to know who he is until the time is right.

Statue of Cupido and Psyche kissing, 2nd century AD. Room E of the House of Cupid and Psyche. Ostia Antica, Latium, Italy
Cupid allows Zephyrus to take Psyche back to her sisters and bring all three down to the palace during the day, but warns that Psyche should not listen to any argument that she should try to discover his true form. The two jealous sisters tell Psyche, then pregnant with Cupid's child, that rumor is that she had married a great and terrible serpent who would devour her and her unborn child when the time came for it to be fed. They urge Psyche to conceal a knife and oil lamp in the bedchamber, to wait till her husband is asleep, and then to light the lamp and slay him at once if it is as they said. Psyche sadly follows their advice. In the light of the lamp Psyche recognizes the fair form on the bed as the god Cupid himself. However, she accidentally pricks herself with one of his arrows, and is consumed with desire for her husband. She begins to kiss him, but as she does, a drop of oil falls from her lamp onto Cupid's shoulder and wakes him. He flies away, and she falls from the window to the ground, sick at heart.
Psyche then finds herself in the city where one of her jealous elder sisters live. She tells her what had happened, then tricks her sister into believing that Cupid has chosen her as a wife on the mountaintop. Psyche later meets her other sister and deceives her likewise. Each sister goes to the top of the peak and jumps down eagerly, but Zephyrus does not bear them and they fall to their deaths at the base of the mountain.
Psyche searches far and wide for her lover, finally stumbling into a temple where everything is in slovenly disarray. As Psyche is sorting and clearing the mess, Ceres (Demeter to the Greeks) appears, but refuses any help beyond advising Psyche that she must call directly on Venus, who caused all the problems in the first place. Psyche next calls on Juno in her temple, but Juno gives her the same advice. So Psyche finds a temple to Venus and enters it. Venus then orders Psyche to separate all the grains in a large basket of mixed kinds before nightfall. An ant takes pity on Psyche, and with its ant companions, separates the grains for her.

Venus is outraged at her success and tells her to go to a field where golden sheep graze and to retrieve some golden wool. A river-god tells Psyche that the sheep are vicious and strong and will kill her, but if she waits until noontime, the sheep will go to the shade on the other side of the field and sleep; she can then pick the wool that sticks to the branches and bark of the trees. Venus next asks for water flowing from a cleft that is impossible for a mortal to attain and is also guarded by great serpents. This time an eagle performs the task for Psyche.

Venus, furious at Psyche's survival, claims that the stress of caring for her son, made depressed and ill as a result of Psyche's lack of faith, has caused her to lose some of her beauty. Psyche is to go to the Underworld and ask the queen of the Underworld, Proserpina (Persephone to the Greeks), to place a bit of her beauty in a box that Venus had given to Psyche. Psyche decides that the quickest way to the Underworld is to throw herself off some high place and die, and so she climbs to the top of a tower. But the tower itself speaks to Psyche and tells her the route that will allow her to enter the Underworld alive and return again, as well as telling her how to get past Cerberus (by giving the three-headed dog a small cake); how to avoid other dangers on the way there and back; and most importantly, to eat nothing but coarse bread in the underworld, as eating anything else would trap her there forever. Psyche follows the orders precisely, rejecting all but bread while beneath the Earth.
However, once Psyche has left the Underworld, she decides to open the box and take a little bit of the beauty for herself. Inside, she can see no beauty; instead an infernal sleep arises from the box and overcomes her. Cupid (Eros), who had forgiven Psyche, flies to her, wipes the sleep from her face, puts it back in the box, and sends her back on her way. Then Cupid flies to Mount Olympus and begs Jupiter (Zeus) to aid them. Jupiter calls a full and formal council of the gods and declares that it is his will that Cupid marry Psyche. Jupiter then has Psyche fetched to Mount Olympus, and gives her a drink made from ambrosia, granting her immortality. Begrudgingly, Venus and Psyche forgive each other.
Psyche and Cupid have a daughter, called Voluptas (Hedone in Greek mythology), the goddess of "sensual pleasures", whose Latin name means "pleasure" or "bliss".

Never Can Say Goodbye

2011-02-08T11:22:00.003-05:00

I tried to stay away, but the lyrics of life require constant composition, and I am the orchestrator the maestro. So I have returned to the environment that fostered inspiration.

If you've been following my tumblr you know I've been presenting my poetry, Chronicles, and Late Night Liaisons which I will continue to do. However this site will now be a journal of sorts, a place to put my thoughts on a digital shelf, that I can pull inspiration from. Initially this was going to be all about fashion, however I've come to the realization that I'm not a fan of fashion, but rather a style savant, but too many folks are becoming sheep who have had the wool pulled over their eyes (literally)so any post you see involving clothing will have some artistic or creative element, however subtle, that speaks to the sartorial character of each individual.

But for the most part this will give you insight into a piece of my thoughts and perspectives, until I have finished the transcription of my script I play that allows me to act out my part on the world stage.

Movement is necessary

2010-07-20T11:28:00.000-04:00

Ladies and gentlemen transition is what life is all about, growth development, and progression are what makes it beautiful for that reason I will no longer be writing on this blog. Partly because it was too hard to update and write here so I will be moving to Tumblr.com feel free to journey with me there at http://thepoetryoflife.tumblr.com/ I hope you have enjoyed these chapters as much as I have enjoyed transcribing them, it's now time to turn the pagae.

Letter's to my lover: What comes with me.

2010-06-22T16:35:00.000-04:00

First I would offer her my heart. A baseline that would coincide with each breath she takes, creating music that only the two of us would move to. She would hold the key to the door that only my Father and family have access to, and in it she would find the fullness of me, my insecurities and my limitless possibilities, my fears and the courage to face them, the malice and discontent I have received and the love and compassion I hope to return. She would hold my heart with the knowledge that she could scar it and with it me for life if handled improperly, or care for it in ways that cultivated a strong beat than ever experienced from those who once experienced me.

Secondly she would be privileged to receive the privilege of a man, something seemingly scarce now days, strong enough to love and commit more than sweet words or good intentions. She would receive my focus, a ffocus on more than her figure or physical features, a focus on her habits, her movements, and her manner while marveling at God's work in creating such a wonderful and complex creature.

Others often compliment words, but she would receive my tone, my voice, my pitch and as she inspired me my sentiment. Our interaction would be living breathing poetry, seamlessly transitioning between metaphor and simile, creating sonnets that inspired others to love again. Together we would create words that defied definition and speak in a language of motion and feelings, a language that would universally understood.

Sensually she would receive fingertips caressing her gently in places and positions that I won't mention. A kiss that would leave time tired and she went to sleep we would creep past midnight into the hours of the dark, where one of our senses was no longer needed which would only heighten our others so that we experience bliss on an inexplicable level. We would not make love we would make harmony. At times quiet requiring no sounds but the inhalation of anticipation and exhaling pleasure as we descended into her depth until her well ran dry, while I filled once again with pleasurable moments.

Lastly she would receive my appreciation because I would be the lucky one, for only a privileged few receive the wonderful gift that comes when you have a lady. I only offer the simple things and yet it's funny the simple things in life often bring us the most joy, while simultaneously baffling the masses. I guess that's the privilege of being my lady.

Thought of the Day

2010-06-10T14:38:00.000-04:00

Why do we try so hard to impress those who have no interest in us, yet neglect those who are moved, inspired, and blessed by us simply being who we are?

I would love to hear your thoughts.

Letters to My Love Her: My First Love-The First Time I Knew

2010-05-10T05:34:00.000-04:00

After our first encounter, I knew you would love me forever, that we would share something no one would understand but us, it was our connection, our bond, I was always on your mind, as I formed my thoughts about you, I became your heart, as my heartbeat grew stronger for you, and after much anticipation I was finally introduced to you, and these eyes had never seen anything more beautiful. How I was blessed to be with someone so wonderful was awing, and it was then I knew I was falling, for my first love.

How do you capture a dream?

2010-05-09T08:06:00.000-04:00

How do you capture a dream?
Do you grab it?
Do so too quickly and it slips through your hands.
Do you embrace it?
Squeeze to hard and you crush it.
No dreams, like passion, must be catered to,
taking time to cultivate each and every element, with unwavering attention,
It must consume our entire being until as natural as breathing,
inhaling the thought, and exhaling the manifestation,
so that each moment becomes memorable,
After all what is passion except a strong desire which moves us to act,
And what are dreams At their core except things we desire,
So don't just find your passion live it.

A New Flavor

2010-04-17T07:00:00.000-04:00

So today was my first taste of salsa and I must say it was tasty. Full of flavor, spice, and passion. It's my hope that everyone knows I mean the dance and not the condiment.

My homie took to me La Pregunta, a small bar and cafe on 153rd and Amsterdam, for lessons. We arrived a little late and everyone was in line waiting to be paired up fellas on one side and ladies on the other. We quickly moved to the end of the line. The instructor explained that he would teach us the basic steps, we would then add music, then the ladies would rotate each time. We began three steps forward...5,6,7, three steps back...1,2,3. Then we added a turn and a spin and finished off with 5,6,7,1,2,3. Some of my partners were great teachers, others were beginners like me, and several tried to lead me (which was a humorous exchange) but after a few times I was moving pretty well. The lesson ended and we moved off of the dance floor to rest and the professional stepped on the floor.

When you watch these two people interact with each other it's not hard to see the sexual innuendo presented by this exchange. The movement is sensual, man guiding woman, woman being guided by man and for four minutes two becoming one, moving together to create beautiful movement. Well idealistically. I seemed to fumble around trying to get the basics down. But give me a break it was my first time and we are all awkward the first time. ;) but with practice I'll be making a new flavor.

PS The reason the pictures are blurry is because they capture movement.

A Pause for Prose: Shades over the Soul

2010-04-13T03:57:00.000-04:00

It was a beautiful sunny day- fitting considering it Easter Sunday, and I was on my way to Brooklyn Flea Market. I looked up and my eyes encountered beautiful young lady stepping on the train; demur, feminine, and demanding attention, with shades on. I watched her and wondering what she was concentrating so hard on. She briefly looked at me or in my direction before she got off the train and I begin to wonder.

If the eyes are the windows to the soul why do we consistently cover them up? Are we then afraid of what others may see in us? Or are we afraid to show our souls to the world? It such a shame that we hide such a beautiful piece of ourselves from each other. Aside from the physical beauty of eyes, eye contact allows us to connect with each other in unspeakable ways. "At that moment when our eyes are locked in silent communication, we are, in essence, touching." -Debbie Bailey. Have we become so disconnected with others, and so self absorbed that we are afraid to touch someone with a pleasant look?

Sure shades have their function but it seems like recently for most of us that function is to protect our looks our expressions and pieces of who we are. Interestingly enough we are willing to expose so much of ourselves today, but are unwilling to convey the thing that gives insight to who we really are. With our windows open who knows who may enter our souls.

Resolved I will be better…

2010-03-26T06:02:00.000-04:00

The other night a most unfortunate thing happened. I got drunk, well drunk is an understatement. I found myself waking up with a hangover but a more disturbing feeling of not remembering what happened at the end of the night. We have all had those moments I’m sure, lucky for me my brother (from another mother) was looking out for me and gave me the 411 on the evening’s activities. He informed me that I was very rude and disrespectful to a young lady, and if that wasn’t bad enough I didn’t remember the encounter. As the story goes she was a beautiful young woman who obviously wasn’t enamored with my inebriated charms and I snapped on her, which she didn’t deserve. She should have slapped me-I would have deserved it, but she constrained her self. This was followed by throwing up outside and being loud and obnoxious going into my apartment. And while some of it was funny it was unsettling to know I acted like an ass.

Over the years I made the claim that I’m on a path to be refined and sophisticated so that I may be a pleasure to others while in their company. However these blunders often make me wonder if I will ever arrive at that destination. Wise enough to know my limits, courageous enough to step away from the indulgence when I have reached it, aware of the characters that they can conjure up.

It’s been said that “final mystery is oneself” and on this journey I have realized that I have qualities unbecoming of the man I want to be. Yet we all seem afraid to confront the things that could give us the most liberation, the darkness that lurks within our souls awaiting the moments to rear its ugly head through our vanity or our vices, and seemingly diminishing our characters. But we must ”confront the dark parts of ourselves, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Our willingness to wrestle with our demons will cause our angels to sing…”

To the young lady I encountered I wish that I could apologize to you face to face, taking with it whatever verbal tongue lashing or worse that came with it. But this is my only forum with which I can offer my sincerest regret for my actions, intimidated by the allure of your femininity and charms, and filled with “liquid courage” I did not present myself as someone worth your time instead as a coward who couldn’t handle rejection. But as I continue to live, I continue to learn, and I evolve and resolve to do and become a better individual.

Here I am.

2010-02-23T06:42:00.000-05:00

Life is funny. We define ourselves by what we do thinking that our position makes us who we are-interestingly enough historically occupations did define our status and name in society that’s where many of our last names come from. Our perception often times seem skewed we are either complaining about our situation with no plans to change it, or we’re holding on so tightly to it that we think we will die if we lose it, when letting go could be the most liberating opportunity for us to really begin living. We forget about our fellow man or woman who have it much worse than we do. And rarely do we really appreciate the things we have. I was blessed to be educated in a conversation that I had with a young lady who was going through a storm in her life and had almost given up. I found myself encouraging her, yet simultaneously asking myself the last time I encouraged myself? Telling her she needed to speak life into her own situation, and asking myself when was the last time I gave myself affirmation? Telling her that her substance didn’t lie in possessions, but asking myself how much substance I was giving to the material things in my life? Our conversation inspired this prose and I’m truly thankful for her lesson and her blessings.
It’s quiet now, and the silence deafening. All I hear is my thoughts screaming accusations of all of my faults and shortcomings, all of my failures, all of my mistakes to me. I am only rescued by the sound of crying, I look to see who is there and only realize it’s me when I taste the salt from tears. It is so cold the winds of doubt and loneliness are blowing all around me I cry out for help but no one seems to answer. It is so dark that I can’t see what is in front me and so here I remain seemingly drowning the abyss of dispair. Lost in the recess of my perception.
My history is comprised of what they thought of me, because they think they know me. Hell they ought to they raised me and developed me teaching me what they thought would be important in life. But now it doesn’t seem to hold weight in this place. They told me “get good grades so you can get into a good school” so I did. They told me to “get a good job, a house, so you can find a mate” so I did.
The sun was shining on my life, then the clouds of trials began to roll in, and the rain of tribulation began to fall and the floods of stress and fear consumed me. I lost my job then my house, and nobody wanted me, so here I am, cold, destitute, and lonely. I am haunted by all of things that I was supposed to be, with the promise those accomplishments would bring the blossom of spring in my life but spring never came. I have lost everything but here I am.
Here I am.
Here I am breathing, clothed, sheltered, and in my right mind, with all that I have lost I must never forget what I have gained. Here I am stronger with the knowledge that life’s hardships could not break or deter me. Here I am Here I am wiser understanding that those things they said I should have don’t mean anything if they don’t mean anything to me. Here I am finding my strength in my struggle. Fulfillment truly comes when there is balance. One cannot not truly appreciate pleasure without pain, cannot truly appreciate success without failures, and can’t truly know their strength until it is tested. That substance lies not in what others say about me, but what I say about myself. I found peace in the chaos of my thoughts He touched me and the warmth of the Son filled me and the light that was in me permeated the darkness and I began to shine.

Lovers and Friends....

2010-02-21T03:16:00.001-05:00

It’s been said that friends make the best lovers,
I have often wondered why?
Is it because they know ones ins and outs?
Or because they know what lies behind their eyes?
Is it their attention their history and comprisal of all the things that make them up?
Or their ability to see the beauty you possess even if it’s in the morning without your make up?
Or is it simply because they took time to experience your story?
In this fickle world we are often afraid to reveal who we are intimately,
But a true friend takes time to displace insecurity,
When one truly cares, they want to experience your mind,
Far before they are ever concerned about the other side of “quality time”,

When you tell them your deepest secrets,
They are not dissuaded or intimidated,
Nor do they find perverse intrigue,
They simply understand that’s apart of your personality,
And you can rest assure that they won’t tell anybody,
Or even more so it because they know all of those pleasurable places others never privily to, simply because they took the time to listen to you,
Stories you freely disclosed, racy, sometimes wild,
And with attentive ears they simply listened and smiled,
All the while respecting you and suppressing selfish desires,
Allowing you to fine solace and affection in their arms,
A lady or a gentleman they remain,
Unless you both fall victim to seduction and her charms,

Regardless of the each situation what is most important of all,
Whatever should happen you can always depend on your friend
To be there whenever you call,
So next time your making excuses of why you think it won’t work out,
Go ahead and try the friend thing out,
You never know what may happen in the end the greatest lover in life could end up being your best friend.

Pause for Prose: Baby it's cold outside

2009-12-30T07:52:00.000-05:00

There are universal questions that we all ask ourselves throughout course of our life's journey. One of them seems to always be “Who am I?” For some of us it feels like it takes a lifetime to answer while we are met with more and more intense questions at varying crossroads that often feel frightening. Frightening because it requires reflection of ourselves, who we are and we desire to be.
Yesterday I awakened work to freshly fallen snow that covered all of New York as I was getting ready for work. This was a totally new experience for me because I am from Texas. It rarely snows there, and when it does everything shut down. Here in New York folks don’t miss a beat, so with a “when in Rome” attitude I began my trek to the job.
In the midst of tingling frozen fingers, a runny nose, and a flurry of flakes hitting my face, I had an epiphany. Not just that it was cold but something more. As I walked down the avenue to my train I noticed footsteps in the snow going in every direction. Some seemed to disappear in the dirt and grime of the street while others were going right and some retreating back from whence they came. As I began to make my own impressions I thought about all of the pressures I have put on myself to be something grand and to make my impression on the world. I heard the crunch of contentment and felt myself slipping on a path that says, “Life is too short for mistakes you have to get things right the first time” yet when an elder passes we are often met with words of solace like “they made many mistakes but with those mistakes that were life lessons, and left impressions on them that made them the person they are. We should celebrate their life for their greatest successes and many failures.”
Too often we focus on the destination that our footsteps will take us to, yet we forget to enjoy the texture that life brings and the journey that leads us to our destination. We step out into the cold world feeling all alone, on our own trying to make sure that we don’t slip and fall, or get on the wrong path and having to turn around.
Often discouragement and fear lies in the knowledge that these paths are unchartered and therefore unknown. There are holes you could sink into, snow covering ice that could cause you to slip an fall, slippery walk ways that could cause you to lose your footing. For this reason it seems that many of us run from the path that was laid before us, retreating back to beginnings and never progressing. You got folks telling you, you may get out there and that cold is going to kick your ass, only to find out that it’s not that bad. For me as I moved forward I began to see things differently, as I took each step I was creating a temporary path for someone to use as a guide and even if I were to fall or step in a hole my mistake helped expose my followers to not step that way. But the thing I think I liked most about the snow is that any misstep I made would soon be blanketed so that I could try again, and soon after it will all wash away when I reach the warm destination of self-contentment.

A night at the Opera

2009-12-29T06:58:00.000-05:00

Despite a long day, working midnight shift then getting off at eight in the morning to be at my internship at nine, I was anticipating going to my first opera with a co-worker of mine who is a lover of the arts. After I received the call that she had gotten the rush tickets (if you don’t know you better ask somebody) I hopped on the bus headed to 62ndstreet. There was a light but consistent rain as I got on that was just heavy enough to make it annoying. That, coupled with the traffic from the lighting of the tree in Rockerfeller Center, would have been enough to aggravate most but I was enjoying the rest I was getting and knew that we had time before the show started.

Because we arrived so early we had about an hour and a half to spend, so we decided to check out the gift shop. I thought it’d be the perfect opportunity to find something for my mother for Christmas. Unfortunately even the smallest trinkets were out of my price range. Still, the place had some beautiful costume displays and other nice memorabilia to look at. As we walked a little further and listened to Pavarotti playing lowly in the background

I was drawn to this painting. The gentleman in it was poised and elegant in a brocaded suit with knickers, cream silk stockings, and pumps with a cape to match. I couldn’t help but feel underdressed in my car coat, cable knit, and cords, but it was my first time at the Opera so I figured my fellow patrons would cut me some slack.

Before going into the lobby area we checked out an exhibit entitled Mary Magadeline that showcased artist's different interpretations of Mary Magadeline. Check the “Good Book” for more info on her. The thing I especially enjoyed about these remarkable artists was that they each had a individual interpretation of who Mary was and what she represented and they conveyed them in an array of mediums -- one in sculpture another in mosaic, some depicting her as a saint, others demurely, and others still in a more seductively and rakish manner. While the mediums, depictions and dispositions were quite different from one another, all of the artists came together to create something beautiful. Life is a lot like art in this way.

As we walked through the museum the pictures and keepsakes from the house spoke to it’s rich history. Speaking of history, this is the perfect place for a little bit about the Metropolitan Opera House, it was founded in 1883 by a group of business men who wanted their own theatre. In the beginning the management and language changed frequently which often meant translating original scores from one language to another. Finally management decided it would be easiest to keep each play in its original language. The Met (as is it is typically referred to) host more than two hundred performances with more than a quarter million people in attendance each year. New York’s socialites and movers and shakers often come out opening night in sartorial splendor to celebrate first curtain. The Met seems to be vested in continuing the arts developing a new program that commission playwrights and composers with whatever they need to develop new works that can be produced at The Met. The Met also offers a rush ticket program that provides discounted seats ($20) in the orchestra section which provided this opportunity.

With all the visual and audio stimulation around me I was amped going into the autotorium and was pleasantly surprised to see that I wasn’t under dressed. We found our way to our seats and I prepared myself for “The House of the Dead”. I was comfortably in my seat as a hush fell over the crowd when a the first act began and the lights went out. And then, so did I. I was awakened by my co-worker telling me she had to use the powder room and if I didn’t see her she enjoyed attending with me I couldn’t believe it, I had fallen asleep. Oh well at least I could say I had been to the Opera and I had a reason to go again.

The Holiday Spirit.

2009-12-07T06:19:00.001-05:00

With the holiday season in full swing, I wanted to offer an alternative perspective to typical mindset that comes with the season. With the economy on the rebound and consumer confidence on the rise, some say there is a temptation to be sucked into the commercialism of the Christmas season. But is that the attitude we should have? With Thanksgiving having just passed I have had an opportunity to take a moment to think about on what I was really thankful for. While I am sure we are all thankful for the turkey, stuffing, and sweet potato pie, let’s not forget that all these things are “dressings” for the real reason for the season.

This past Thanksgiving I had the pleasure of engaging in lively conversations with my new extended family over a few glasses of wine and several glasses of iced tea because still I had to work that night. We shared laughter, jokes, and had a wonderful time enjoying each other perspectives on the goings on of the world around us. It was in that moment that I had an epiphany - it is these moments--these experiences--that we should hold on to...that we should be thankful for. You cannot put a price tag on these moments. They are our most pure and priceless keepsakes.

One of my brothers from another mother took a picture of me and a literary friend of mine engaging in a conversation (...because we can fly blog at www.deborahcowell.com, check her out she may just bless you). She made mention during that conversation that the picture could be anywhere in years to come, and someone could be asking questions like, “What do you think they were talking about?” “What was going on in the world at that time?” We have the power to inspire thought, research, and inspiration through images, but what’s more is that we have a forum with which to discuss it on a global scale. For others to be invited into our life to see things through our eyes, and experience a different walk in our shoes.

I am thankful to my family back home, who cultivated and developed my curiosity which put on the path that led me here to this beautiful city. And I am thankful for the wonderful people that challenge me to be better and inspire me to contemplate deeper things, and live a more fulfilled life. As Christmas quickly approaches, and we rush out to buy the latest electronic devices, new toys, or trendy articles of clothing let us not forget about the gifts that can’t be bought but carry so much more value: family interaction, being with to the ones you love, and seeing Christ in those we interact with. That’s definitely something to be thankful for.

School is in secession

2009-11-27T01:49:00.001-05:00

The longer that I live here in “The City”, the more I realize that my hardcore education did not really begin until the moment I stepped off the plane to this new chapter of my life. Whether it has been the fast pace of the people on the streets, the grit and rawness of almost everything, or the realization that you really do have to make it here on your own the lesson to be learned from it all is not cliche -- if you can survive here then you really can thrive anywhere. New York, as a mentor of mine has explained, is a kinetic city. It gives you right back what you put in, and you never know what seemingly random interaction might open the door to your greatness. I have been blessed to be in the right circles around the right people to educate myself on things that others may not have otherwise had the opportunity to experience, but as the good Book says, "Ask and you shall receive." I have done just that and that request has lead me here.

As soon as I arrived in New York my mentor told me I had to stop by the Alan Flusser Shop on 5th Avenue. As I walked passed Rockerfeller Center and Bloomingdales on this historic avenue I expected something a bit more grand than what I found. When I arrived at the address there was a nondescript buzzer on an unassuming building that many pass on a daily basis without a second thought. It was only after I got off on the elevator and entered what could only be described as a university of decorum, refinement, social interaction, and sartorial arts that I understood New York, a city often noted for its exportation of the grandiose, is a place where the great ones learn and teach of being understated and demure. There is an art to this.

If you aren’t familiar with my dean let me enlighten you. He is the author of several books on dressing and style including: Clothes and the Man, and Style and the Man, and most recently Dressing the Man. As a designer his accolades include receiving the Coty Award for top men’s designer, and being a costume designer for the move Wall Street. He remains a leading authority on men’s style and matters of taste. But the man himself is quietly reserved, confident, and mild in manner. His style, however, hints to something more engaging. Sonething that seemingly promotes conversation, and the guy seems to have a interesting story about a lot of things that you could listen to hours to. The rest of the professors have been in the retail industry for twenty plus years but beyond their knowledge of analytical operations, the offer lessons in color theory, sartorial textiles and origins, fit 101, and the psychology of clientele interaction. As my dean Alan Flusser has stated “This shop is a university of sorts teaching not only matters of sartorial knowledge, but social interaction and hospitality.”

While I am truly grateful for my matriculation and degree, I believe that it was all just preparation for the real education of life. As Oscar Wilde once said “Education is an admirable thing, but it is well to remember from time to time that nothing that is worth knowing can be taught.”

The Season of...

2009-11-16T04:32:00.001-05:00

Behold that old things must pass away to make way for things to become anew. Life is all about change, and transition. Funny thing about transition it seems to be one of the most exciting, yet awkward, and confusing times in life each time it happens. I have equated it to walking into a dark room and trying to find your way around, being able to see images but unable to make out what they are or fully appreciate where they are. We tend to think these things are obstacles having to feel our way around and use other senses to guide us to our destination but once we arrive at the switch and turn the light on, it is revealed that those so called obstacles were actually gifts that we could only appreciate after we felt them out, often times we take precious things like the metamorphosis of maturity for granted and can only appreciate arriving at a desired destination if we had to go through something to get to it.
So I must begin this change that has started to take place with an apology. This journey that you are all taking with me should be so much more than fashion, or the proverbial luxurious lifestyle. As a side note I had the pleasure of meeting a very wise gentleman who spoke to me about what luxury is and he said that, “True luxury is having the resources and time to the things that you want to do at your leisure.” With this new revelation I will be attempting to take you on a luxurious experience filled with new understanding of self, and the world around me, through the relationships I build and maybe even some that I have discard. But I believe it was best said in David Copperfield when he said, “Whether I shall turn out to be the hero of my own life, or whether that station will be held by anybody else, these pages must show.”

With that said I thank you for taking this trip with me…

My Sincerest Apologies

2009-09-19T17:08:00.000-04:00

Ladies and Gents I must offer my sincerest apologies to you all who have been checking for updates. So many incredible things have happened to me. First I have relocated to Harlem, NY. Between looking for a place and roaming the streets I haven't had a lot of time to update the blog, now that I am moderately settled I will be updating about once a week.

New York has been a filled so many visually stimulating things it's amazing and as luck would have it I arrived just in time for NYC fashion week. We Stepped out for Fashion Night Out. And we decided to settle at the Bloomingdale's Store at 59th and Lexington and I was definitely glad we did. I enjoyed a wonderful conversation with a gentleman who was constructing Timberland's on site it was quite impressive to watch.

And I had the chance to hang out with my partners in crime...here's one introducing Mr. Kevin Brown author and designer in all his natty glory.

We end the evenings festivities at an exclusive soiree' hotel suite

NYC Fashion week also brought with it my first NYC Fashion Show it was in an Art Gallery in Soho and for designer TELFAR

All in all I have to say I'm loving NYC and I think it loves me too...see you soon...until then keep creating and innovating. Ciao.

Do you're best forget the rest

2009-09-05T11:43:00.000-04:00

“Style is knowing who you are, what you want to say, and not giving a damn.”

And the winner is...

Dan T.

Visit msnbc.com for Breaking News, World News, and News about the Economy

My apologies

2009-08-29T19:52:00.000-04:00

For all of my readers my apologies I will be back on point on the first of September 1st. I promise it'll be worth the wait...Follow me.

Ascension

2009-08-15T10:42:00.000-04:00

“Intellectual growth should commence at birth and cease only at death” Albert Einstein

Intelligence is rooted in education, yet contrary to popular belief scholastic education isn't what college is all about. College is an examination...It's an examination of thoughts, of perceptions, of self, of life and what we want to make it. "The unexamined life isn't a life worth living." -Plato

Sartorial Hipsters

2009-08-11T08:29:00.001-04:00

Whereabout A/W 2009

Like Mommy and Daddy Did...

2009-08-04T05:26:00.000-04:00

Come here my lady take my hand let's run away to lover's land, lets pretend I'm not your man so we can share the smile the first time we saw each others eyes, and relive the adventures we experienced on those long drives, when we didn't listen to the worlds lies telling us we couldn't last, telling each others secrets like school kids, admiring every little thing each other did when love was simple, playful filled with life and color, the time I met you and new for me there was no other.

I found this wonderful fashion well perusing around one of my favorite fashion sites The Fashion Bomb and thought I'd share it with you. Enjoy.

New Age Art Old world style

2009-08-04T04:47:00.000-04:00

Visual design for a store not only references the brands lifestyle expression it has the opportunity compile visually striking elements that brought together provide a retail portrait functional yet artistic. Hollander and Lexer's Williamsburg store are a wonderful example of this sentiment. Enjoy.

Fall Picks My Top Ten

2009-08-04T01:52:00.000-04:00

The texture of chroma sculpts the sartorial silhouettes with crisp whispers of enlightenment that fall brings, new moments, new memories, renewed opportunities to transform commonalities into something uniquely magnificent. Take a trip through creative minds and experience somethings old, somethings borrowed, somethings the blue, all referencing the past yet begun anew. ---

Over the weekend Men.style.com (which I've heard will be shutting down due to the economy :( ) posted it's bi annual picks which looks at different retailers pics for each season here are some of my favorites.

Fay by Giles Deacon peacoat
available at Barneys

While there may be nothing new under the sun referencing the past can always offer new inspiration.

Bess NYC leather moto jacket
available at Barneys

The passing of Michael Jackson (RIP) has inspired an indulgence of oppulence despite our current economic hardships in my opinion. I love seeing pieces that my alter ego (if I had one) would wear with bravado and arrogance, this piece reminds me of a modern day Rebel without a Cause or something the modern T-birds would incorporate.

BBlessing for Molly Yestadt "Melville" fedora
available at BBlessing

Dandys and Hepcats will appreciate this fedora smooth styling and color, while simultaneously adding a bit of gruffness with the felt definitely a timeless piece.

The Finnish raccoon trapper hat
Available at Bergdorf Goodman

There is versatility and vanity in fur hats, to me they are like art you can wear. The silent opulence that spoken by wearing one often can be heard from across the street when spoken eloquently of course. And aside from PETA I think that's why we love em.

Band of Outsiders Shetland sweatpants
available at shops of the confederacy

Who says sweats can't be sartorial. And I think their quote said it best "I am of the philosophy that even in your bumming-around hours, you should look stylish—these are the answer to that conundrum."

Dries Van Noten portfolio
available at Jeffery New York

While "man bags" are often thought to be too "metro" for many the attache' offers professional charm in its design but bold options for those looking to leave lasting impressions.

Balenciaga varsity jacket
available at Jeffery New York

If any of you played sports varsity sports was always our goal, and the letter man's jacket represented achievement and playing at the top of your game...same concept different game.

LD Tuttle motorcycle boot
available at Oak NYC

I love the paradox of hard design co-mingled with soft media the leather boots are that representation.

Opening Ceremony quilted dress shirt
available at Opening Ceremony

As dandies it's our job to push the sartorial envelope and I think this is one way to do it, I could see this paired with a velvet bow tie and waistcoat over some flannel trousers and the moto boots.

Kolor stretch glen plaid suit
available at Opening Ceremony

Tom Ford once said "A man should feel so comfortable in a suit that he's just as comfortable in a suit as he would be in sweats." I think this is a nice compromise.

These were a few of my favorites but take a look at all of the looks on men.style and may your fall be as colorful and beautiful as these pieces.

I don't need to write it down

2009-08-01T04:03:00.000-04:00

Peep my Peacock Feathers

2009-07-31T03:49:00.001-04:00

Peacock Chair by Studio Dror

Guess the Clock ate the Croc.

2009-07-29T02:21:00.001-04:00

You know what time it is.

Hermes Croc Desk clock.

Well dressed, elegant men get all the girls...

2009-07-29T01:14:00.000-04:00

"My Style is typical American Hollywood 1930's those men that were well put together, who got all the girls, I dress like that." -Domenico Spano

Gotta love that

Artistic Architecture

2009-07-21T08:21:00.000-04:00

With its unique roof top domes, individualized windows and doors, and roof top garden a top the entire building, "Waldspirale" in Darmstadt, Germany has to be one of the most colorful and unique places to live. With a building this vibrant who would need art?

Source

Follow the Music

2009-07-21T03:01:00.000-04:00

While I was at Clark Atlanta University I had the pleasure of meeting this guy

he and I modeled together at several fashion shows, and he definitely had a beautiful spirit (yes fellas dudes can have beautiful spirits without it being homo) and infectious personality we enjoyed many conversations but it wasn't until I left that I found he is apart of a legacy of great musicians: He is the nephew of this guy
Kirk Whalum if you haven't heard of em check him out, he has been on the jazz circuit for years and is a trail blazer in his industry.

Kortland is also the brother of this guy

picture by Jon Genius

Kenneth Whalum III a future jazz icon in my opinion, he has already worked with some of the best in the game including Diddy, Jay-Z, 50 Cent, Mary J Blige, Jay Z, Snoop Dogg, Beyonce, Fantasia, Joss Stone, super producer Rodney Jerkins, Al Green, Regina Belle and most recently has been touring with Maxwell which couldn't have been a better fit in my opinion. He plays with the same soul, sensuality, and passion that Maxwell sings with. He is currently working on his first solo album, and I'm greatly anticipating it's release.

Here is his journey in his words...

SAX AND THE CITY: A Musician's Journey from Teneille Gibson on Vimeo.

PS I know the apple doesn't fall far from the tree, so be on the look out for Kortland as well I know we'll be seeing his name in lights sometime soon.

Recyling? No Reinventing...

2009-07-15T03:18:00.000-04:00

Buckstyle online mag took vintage clothing and inexpensive pieces from lines like H&M and used them to create their Refine/Reflect fashion well. I know hearing that description we often your mind immediately retreats to hipster, or boho chic looks. But the pictures captured are precisely what it means to personify or embody sartorial style. The pieces were vintage but more important classic elements that are still relevant today, tailored to fit...not only their silhouette but their personality. Cheers to them. Enjoy.

How to get Shot...

2009-07-15T02:59:00.000-04:00

I'm a huge fan of The Sartorialist as I'm sure a lot of you are and I came across this clever formula of sorts (new dandyism by way of refinery 29) on how to get your 15 seconds of style by being captured by his lense. Enjoy.

PS Mr. Damien K. Brown has been captured by Mr. Schuman on more than one occasion guess he has the formula down to what some may call a sartorial science. ;)

Wrap it up...and Eat it.

2009-07-15T01:52:00.000-04:00

*
Cook Time

10 min
*
Yield

4 large appetizers or 8 small appetizers

Ingredients

* 1 recipe Yuzu Ponzu, recipe follows
* 16 (1/2-ounce) slices sushi grade yellow fin tuna, sliced 1/4-inch thick
* 16 large butter lettuce leaves
* 12 wonton wrappers, cut into 1/16-inch threads and fried until crispy
* 16 paper thin slices fresh jalapeno
* Spicy chili garlic sauce (recommended: Sriracha,) or other, for garnish
* 16 sprigs cilantro
* Basil Oil, recipe follows

Directions

Pour 1/4 cup of the Yuzy Ponzu onto a large dinner plate. Carefully lay the slices of tuna in the sauce. Marinate for 1 minute and turn over.

Arrange the lettuces leaves on 4 dinner plates, placing 4 leaves on each plate to make a four leaf clover pattern. Place a small amount of the crispy wontons in the center of each leaf. Place a slice of tuna on top of the wonton threads. Pour 1/2 teaspoon of the Yuzu Ponzu over each slice. Place a slice of jalapeno on top of each piece of tuna followed by a dot of the Sirachi and a sprig of cilantro. Drizzle each plate with a small amount of the basil oil.
Yuzu Ponzu:

1 cup soy sauce

1/2 cup sugar

2 inches fresh ginger, cut into 1/8-inch slices

2 lemons, juiced

2 oranges, juiced

1 (6-ounce) bottle Yuzu Ponzu

1 (300 milligram) bottle Yuzu lemon juice
Combine all ingredients in a non-reactive saucepan and bring to a simmer. Stir until the sugar is dissolved, about 5 minutes. Remove from heat and allow to cool before using.

Keep covered in refrigerator for up to 2 months.

Basil Oil:

1 cup loosely packed basil leaves

1/2 cup olive oil
Bring 2 cups of water to boil in a small saucepan. Submerge the basil leaves in the water for 10 seconds or until completely wilted. Shock under cold running water. Blot the leaves on a paper towel to dry them. Place them in a blender with the olive oil and puree for 15 seconds or until completely pureed. Reserve oil in a squeeze bottle. Will keep for 1 week refrigerated.

Courtesy of Emeril Live

Collateral Chroma

2009-07-15T01:41:00.000-04:00

She pours into me, seemingly delicately all the while methodically consuming me, first subtly infiltrating my matter then catastrophically consuming my being until you can't see where she ends, and I begin, I am covered, engulfed, and enwrapped in her hue, her shade, her color....we are forever connected.

photos by Mark Mawson

Hot summer nights...

2009-07-14T08:24:00.000-04:00

Being in Texas in the summer is a shocking experience if you're not from here, our daytime temps can reach 100+ degrees (as they have been the last few weeks) with heat indexes nearing 105+ but at night while it's still hot there are those nights when the heat is poetic

a representation of movement, energy, and life, of passionate intimacy in public places with that person you may or may not remember in the morning, heat becomes the degree of communication that require no words, just movement,

the humidity of sensuality all culminating to receive the refreshing pleasure provided by heat and friction, on these nights the heat is beautiful, engulfing, almost addictive, on these nights we hope the sun never comes up.

Special Appreciation goes to Miles Gray III and the BBC team for another wonderful and memorable evening truly enjoyed myself. And thopphotos for the great pictures.

Forget about Swag...I'm "Smart"

2009-07-10T08:22:00.000-04:00

I love that these looks have undertones of conformity but a essence of arrogance that says I'm too cool to be.

Whereabouts a/w 09/10

The Fashion of Function

2009-07-10T07:55:00.000-04:00

Revolutions of institutional concepts, are for the artistically adept, with abilities to alter our visual precepts of what is art and what is function, the marriage is a carriage of the abstract transporting our thoughts, and visions of normalcy to those pop art images that cause us immediately to react... There could be nothing more beautifully transparent than that.

Brought to you by Teo Jasmin

Animated Artistry

2009-07-10T07:37:00.001-04:00

"Destino"

Salvator Dali & Walt Disney

Couture Canvas

2009-07-10T03:16:00.000-04:00

There is something beautiful when you watch handmade clothing being constructed, the cut, shaping the silhouette...the steady hand needle and thread connecting each piece together...the attention to detail each stitch, each bead strategically placed to bring a look together. I would venture to say these master tailors, and couturiers are no different than the wonderful artist before them while their media different may be different, the mastery of skill, their artistic ability makes their work just as beautiful. Enjoy.

My kind of lady...Lost in her translation

2009-07-09T15:14:00.001-04:00

Give me a lady...
Simple, plain, and I'll paint her portrait while you're lost in her simplicity,
words needn't be spoken, we understand the language of her smile, the dialect of her gaze, the tone of her skin, she speaks universally to all that understand beauty. Give me a lady...

Arlenis Sosa
Age: 20
Origins: Dominican Republic

P.S you gotta love a lady who can speak to you in different tongues

Athletically Inspired

2009-07-09T08:52:00.000-04:00

Forzieri

Men's Handmade Italian Leather Lace-up Shoes

$548.00

Vintage Characteristics....Modern Flair

Style Speaks: Does Style Matter? Of course it does.

2009-07-08T02:31:00.000-04:00

Judging a book by it's cover

2009-07-07T09:02:00.000-04:00

People often ask me why I "dress up" so much, and my reply is simply that it is a reflection of my state of mind. Dress has the ability to transform perception, attitude, and yes even situations. When I walk into any venue looking my best I assume a position of power, that others have no choice but to succumb to.

Peter Binder said that "Dress is the outward expression of a man's state of mind and it is his attire that tells the world what he thinks of himself." So I would ask you when you put adorn yourself in your clothing what are you thinking?

Inside my head...

2009-07-07T04:47:00.000-04:00

When I'm not there she sleeps in my dress shirt, playing dress up then sending pictures cause that's how she flirts, Black orchid perfume consumes my room, as she plays with gender, conformity, taboo, damn girl that's why I'm in to you...

Enjoy.

"Brace" yourself

2009-07-07T03:43:00.001-04:00

While most of us understand the difference between suspenders and braces there are some who may not. Simply put suspenders are connected with a brass clips, while braces are attached to trousers with buttons using leather tabs at the ends.

Suspenders are less professional or formal than standard braces so I definitely enjoy seeing them worn with jeans or chinos as an alternative to belts, but if your throwing on a suit invest in your tailor putting in some buttons and throw on some braces.

Custom Braces made by Dion Neckwear via made to measure

The Chroma of Culture -Sergei Prokudin-Gorskii

2009-07-07T03:19:00.000-04:00

Color exist to personify the speech of the spirit, all of the harmony, fluidity, that we wish we could express, color encapsulates, regurgitates and lands on and in our memories providing the vivid, vibrancy, that only something this striking could bring.

So I was going to try to explain this but the author at New Art did a much better job of summarizing and defining this wonderful artist and his art.

Sergei Prokudin-Gorskii was a Russian photographer born in 1863. After studying chemistry with Mendeleev and later with Adolf Miethe - one of the crucial figures in the invention of color photography - Gorskii started developing his own techniques and processes of color photography, giving it a quality that even impresses even today.

PS. The amazing color bars that appear on some of the pictures are the result of Prokudin-Gorskii's ingenious process, which consisted in taking three subsequent, monochromatic photographs, one with a green filter, one with blue and one with red. He then superimposed the three projections using lamps with a corresponding filter system. I adore these frames, unfortunately some of the images needed additional computer editing (by the Library of Congress) and in this version were cropped.

Classic Cocktails for the kiddies

2009-07-03T15:11:00.000-04:00

Ok I know what you're thinking what kind of blog is this that would promote under age drinking...it's not. I realized not everyone drinks alcohol and I haven't listed any refreshing alternatives to those guest. My apologies for my rudeness. So here are a few recipes that are sure to give the your non drinking friends a buzz without the hangover.

PS. Remember a drink alcoholic or non alcoholic always looks better in a Martini or wine glass ;).

The Cinderella
For a more elegant effect cut all of the juices and ginger ale in half and serve it in a chilled cocktail glass. Garnish with both pineapple and orange slices and don't forget that little paper umbrella for an extra finishing touch.
Ingredients:

* 1 oz lemon juice
* 1 oz orange juice
* 1 oz pineapple juice
* 2 oz ginger ale
* dash of grenadine
* pineapple and orange slices for garnish

Preparation:

1. Pour the juices into a cocktail shaker with ice cubes.
2. Shake well.
3. Strain into a chilled collins glass filled with ice.
4. Garnish with the slices of pineapple and/or orange.

The Peach Julius
This is a peach flavored variation of the classic Orange Julius. It is a delicious blended cocktail that is great in summer.
Ingredients:

* 1 cup of fresh or frozen peach juice
* 2 oz milk
* 1 tsp vanilla extract
* 2 Tbsp sugar
* 1 scoop of vanilla ice cream

Preparation:

1. Place all ingredients in a blender with 1/2 cup of ice.
2. Blend until smooth.
3. Pour into a chilled hurricane glass.

If the mix is too thick, add more juice or water. If it’s too thin, add more ice or ice cream.

The Infamous Sherbert Punch

This Sherbert Punch is one of my favorites of all time that my mother would make for parties. Sometimes it is called a Wedding Punch as well, because it has an elegant green hue and a taste that is a definite non-alcoholic crowd pleaser. My favorite aspect of this is that it brings together lime sherbert and the ginger ale makes the punch bubble for a nice effect. If you like, add green food coloring to enhance the color and be sure to have ice on hand for refills (blocks work great, but ice rings are a nice touch).

Serves 50
Ingredients:

* 1 quart lime sherbert
* 2- 6 oz cans frozen lime juice concentrate
* 2- 6 oz cans frozen lemon juice concentrate
* 6 juice can of water
* 4 quarts ginger ale, chilled
* green food coloring (optional)

A Taste of Something New

2009-07-03T09:01:00.000-04:00

Ingredients

* 1 whole pineapple
* 2-3 tablespoons Urban Accents Cayman Citrus Dryglaze™
* Juice of one orange
* Juice and zest of one lime
*

Instructions

1. Cut off top and bottom of pineapple. Cut down the sides until all holes, spikes, and spines are removed. Place the pineapple on its side and cut into ¾- to 1-inch slices. In a large glass baking dish, combine orange juice, lime juice and zest, and Cayman Citrus Dryglaze (start with 1 tablespoon, taste marinade, and work up to match your own personal “spicy” factor). Add pineapple rings and toss gently to evenly coat pineapple. Let pineapple marinate for 15 minutes, flipping rings over once or twice.

2. Preheat grill or stovetop grill pan for medium-high heat. Grill pineapple rings on both sides to get slightly charred grill marks. Serve as dessert with vanilla ice cream or as an accompaniment to pork.

Savory & Sweet summertime treat mmmmmm.

Mid Summer Nights Dream

2009-07-03T08:38:00.000-04:00

And the breeze carried me through the evening on notes of melody laced with jasmine, harmony with hints of lavender, and I was carried away by the tune of beautiful, sensual, music.

I had the distinct pleasure of attending the Maxwell concert on Wednesday night and can only use one word to describe the performance...AMAZING!!! Definitely wonderful to have him back. I was hoping to find some pictures of the show (they wouldn't allow cameras in the joint) but I have yet to find any. Album drops July 7th definitely a must have for any music connoisseur, and if he's going to be anywhere near where you cop some tixs it'll be worth it.

The Scent of a Woman...

2009-07-01T07:37:00.000-04:00

She passed me the essence of her being teasing me, seducing me, enveloping me, then escaping me, all in an instant, leaving me with nothing but her essence.

This is the way a women should smell...

The Vicarious Life...

2009-07-01T07:14:00.000-04:00

I am definitely blessed to have friends that lead such interesting lives...

Damien K. Brown known to me as the Sartorial Savant was recently in a fashion show for Nana Boateng's Akua Adoma collection. I must say I am continuously inspired by this gentleman's voice in fashion, he maybe Oswald Boateng's cousin but he's definitely making a name for himself in the menswear market. Here are just a couple of the looks hope you enjoy.

Be Independent..."Don't follow fashion follow your own fashion"

2009-07-01T06:27:00.000-04:00

Individuality is taking advantage of the opportunity to be transparent, to give the world the opportunity to see who you really are and respond to it, and all the while not give a damn...

It's apparent by now that I am a great admirer of Lapo Elkann's style and while I may not always get or subscribe to all the looks no one can deny his sartorial independence. Which is probably one of the reasons he has had the ability to set trends and has been regarded as one of the best dressed men in the world by many fashion circles. A few years ago he introduced accessories line called Italia Independent which he has now expanded to a full range of "personal products" that are both tasteful and vibrant, encouraging us all to always be independent. Enjoy

P.S. While I don't speak Italian Mr. Elkann has some great words of wisdom in English throughout the video.

Weekend Excursions (sorry for the delay)

2009-07-01T05:46:00.000-04:00

The gift of experience is a priceless jewel that only shines brighter each time it is received...

It was an interesting weekend I made a little excursion to Houston for a lovely friend of mines (Ms. Courtni Martin)fashion show, as she is raising money so that she can study abroad in Paris, France next summer. I had every intention on being in the audience this time as it's been quite awhile since I've watched one but of course I had to be there for a great friend who was in need. While she had everything pretty much in control, I helped with getting looks in order, styling some of the male models, and dressing
so while there was chaos in the back

and we had a few problems with lighting...

The show was a great success and everyone seemed to enjoy themselves. we ended at about 11:45pm and I had every intention of going out for drinks to enjoy myself but when it was all over I simply wanted to go home, so I got back on the road and drove back to Austin, which I would never recommend doing with no sleep but it was worth it my bed never felt so good lol. Much appreciation goes to Alltheparties.com who shot the whole ordeal.

I'm greatly looking forward to this weekend as my lovely lady friend Flor Mancha will be gracing me with her presence as I escort her to a Wedding it should be another fun filled memorable weekend for the Fourth.

Summer Soul Searching

2009-06-30T08:22:00.000-04:00

Ralph Lauren was borin' before I wore him...-Mr. West

Happy Tuesday to all of my blogging family! I hope your weekend was as eventful as mine. My apologies for the delay on some days I'm in summer school and we're on the last leg so it's occupying most of my time. But as I evolve so is this blog and I hope that you all will continue to be patient with me as I add layers to myself and this wonderful outlet to express myself.

On another note I will be uploading my wonderful fellowship I experienced with some beautiful ladies this evening so be on the look out.

The Power of Persuasion.

2009-06-30T07:33:00.000-04:00

Whether you love him or hate him, you have to respect him...Nick Cannon is one the cover of Giant Magazine (July issue) he's been with some of the most beautiful women in the industry, has had his hand in every aspect of entertainment movies, music, and television, which has led him to becoming a multimedia mogul. Whether you laugh at him or with him you gotta give him his respect.

There is no greater power than the power of thought, for as a man thinketh in his heart so is he...thus those around him must eventually succumb to the power that lies dormant within him.

RIP to Icons

2009-06-26T02:03:00.000-04:00

I'm doing the normal routine you know resting before work and I start getting all these random texts telling me the King of Pop has passed, and I'm like yeah whatever this is probably a publicity stunt (as Mr. Jackson was scheduled to go on tour in a month and was rumored to be releasing an album at the end of this year or the beginning of next year) by one of his fans or something but it is true Michael Jackson has died at age 50 of apparent heart failure, this comes right on the heals of one of Americas icons Farrah Fawcett dieing after losing her battle with cancer. Despite the controversy each one faced, dealt with, and overcame these were two creative and therefor beautiful people who will truly and forever be missed RIP Michael Jackson and Farrah Fawcett. To read more about Michael and Farrah's lives check it out here and here. It is my hope that I can have a semblance of the impact on the lives of others as the people have had on ours. May they both rest in peace.

One of my favorites.

Paying homage to an "Angel"

"Take care of how you appear when walking out the door"

2009-06-25T06:03:00.000-04:00

A friend and I were having a chat yesterday about how people are so cavalier about how they communicate themselves to society, it's an unfortunate thing that people really don't realize how much what you wear reflects your state of mind. I came across the interview on swagger360 a blog I just started following and the interviewee Alexander Mars hits key components in the interview. Being dressed well even helped when he met his wife. Guess loving clothing can bring about true love. enjoy

Milanese state of mind

2009-06-25T02:05:00.000-04:00

Tom Ford S/S 2010 looks
10 mag

I want to go back...

2009-06-25T01:58:00.000-04:00

I greatly anticipate being able to go behind the scenes and seeing the process of a line coming together, and all of the variables coming together for the production of a show...but until then I'll enjoy others opportunities to do so. Here are some from the some of the collections I enjoyed. To see all of the men's 2010 spring summer collection check out men.style.com

pictures from 10 mag

Z Zegna S/S 2010

2009-06-25T01:47:00.000-04:00

Salvatore Ferragamo S/S 2010

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John Varvatos S/S 2010

2009-06-25T01:34:00.000-04:00

Alexendar Mcqueen S/S 2010

2009-06-25T01:26:00.000-04:00

With the advent and necessity of the internet, I have begun to see the effects it continues to have on the fashion industry and with the expenses that come with a fashion show and production I wonder if more designers will begin going the internet production route, producing visual pieces of transitional art available to and for everyone. As vinyl, evolved to the 8 track, to the tape, to the CD, to the MP3, I wonder if we are the cusp of a fashion production evolution, could we soon be seeing production instead of shows? I don't know that I'd be all that disappointed if I did.

Etro S/S 2010

2009-06-25T01:19:00.000-04:00

Sports Management

2009-06-23T08:31:00.000-04:00

via selectism

Gamb Floyd sneakers

A man's walk is never done...

2009-06-23T06:00:00.000-04:00

So Milan fashion week started Monday...and I must admit I'm enjoying what I see so far. A return to tailoring and more of a focus on elegance, casual or otherwise. The thing I really love about these fashion week events are not just the fashion shows themselves but a look at style trends especially there in Milan, and Florence. Watching these trends always allow me to update my own wardrobe without purchasing a thing. But for now let's take a look at some of my favorite collections so far for the S/S 2010 collections.

First there's Zegna...No frills, no thrills just consistency on the part of Gildo Zegna the color palette was soft yet classic and offered a more relaxed silhouette (especially in the pants) while remaining true to the brand's elegantly casual aesthetic.

I also enjoyed Bottega Veneta's collection as he explored color and structure with this collection, but the thing that I enjoy most is Tomas Maier's ability to not take a man too far too fast there's always something relatively familiar yet fashionable in his pieces. The colors were a lot more vibrant in hue than in past collections I've seen him produce but I loved that he still managed to keep them masculine but minimizing the vitality of each color.

here's some video of the show

stay tuned for more post after the jump...

Flavor....

2009-06-18T05:07:00.000-04:00

Here's a easy way to put your own stamp on a drink at your next party compliments of Colin Cowie.
The easiest way to flavor Vodka is to add your desired flavoring directly to the bottle, cap the bottle, and allow it to marinate in the freezer for two or three days. The longer it marinates, the stronger the flavor.

Some of my favorite additions are:

* Lemon grass, 3 or 4 stalks
* Orange rind, 1/2 cup
* Raspberries or blackberries - 1 cup
* Tarragon; 4 or 5 stalks
* Star anise, 6 pods
* Grapefruit rind, 1/2 cup
* Lemon rind, 1/2 cup
* Chili peppers, 1 or 2 peppers (for a milder flavor, remove the seeds)

Selfish, selfless, style...

2009-06-18T04:17:00.000-04:00

Style never resides in a piece of clothing it is simply the pen, the tool that gives the author the ability to express himself." -unknown

I think that personal style is an artform all its own, it has always been my belief that stylish friends can go into a store love the same piece purchase it, they can all wear it the same day and each will communicate something very different to their audience. The wonderful people at BKc (Brooklyn Circus),by the way I love these urban gents sense of image communication, provided a perfect representation of this in this picture. Each fella rocking a newsboy (or gatsby whichever you prefer) cap, and naval cardigan.

Now lets take a look at the subtle personal nuances that separate each individual from the other.

Each of them is projecting an air of casualness just in different ways. My man in the red tee, finished off his look with a pair or gray jeans and what appear to be white Nantucket brogues, the red adding a pop of color that would further accentuate the red in the patch on his arm, the cuffed pants offer more of a broad transition as they can be worn more places than shorts can, but still isn't dressed up either.

The next gentleman wore a tee as well but the gray color mutes his look which offers an understated element as if to say I'm styling on you but I don't have to put it in your face, he pairs his look with brown cargo shorts which can be fashionable as well as functional (may need the extra pocket space)but still ads refinement to the look with the brown tassel loafers.

The last dandy of the bunch is more to my taste ( I really don't wear t-shirts that much) pairing a powder blue long sleeve casual button down shirt, with self rolled paper denim shorts with brown driving loafers, and tops it off with a neckercheif if I'm not mistaken. This is probably my favorite look because the neckercheif adds a touch of panache to the overall look elevated to common folk, yet not pretentious, insighting inquiry into the ensemble.

"Here at The BKc we never try to be like each other, we all embrace our own personal Style + Character. But we are all definitely inspired by each other on a daily basis whether it be conscience or unconscience." -BK Circus

Milky...

2009-06-18T03:49:00.000-04:00

It's summertime and no matter where you are you're we're all being affected by the heat, and whether you're a hipster or dandy you have hats in your wardrobe much like these. Panamas, fedoras, all healthy staples to have in any wardrobe.

The thing that makes these Borsalino hats unique is not only the lock and key, or knocker embellishments on the hats (inspired by Alice in wonderland), or their resilience to folding or rolling (pictured above). We've seen that before, these hats are actually good for you...The interlining of the hat is composed of a material made of Milkofil, an innovative biological fiber made from casein—the main protein in milk—which (according to the brand) helps to moisturize the scalp, stimulate blood circulation, and is a natural antibacterial agent. I guess Milk really does a body good.

Behind the scenes @ Burberry

2009-06-18T03:42:00.000-04:00

Here are some shots of the Burberry A/W 09 campaign featuring Emma Watson, but the real star of the shots is these jackets. I love that Christopher Bailey (creative director) has returned back to the essence of Burberry's brand classic elegance, while fusing it with a contemporary style of the tapered or skinny jeans or t-shirt, while still urging men to dress up, even if the bow ties are clip-on. While these were some of my favorites check out more at selectism.com

Got it at the Gatsby...

2009-06-13T07:59:00.000-04:00

We all read the Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald in high school right? (if you didn't read it now) Well in New York every year on Governor's Island you get a little taste of the time at The Roaring '20s Dance and Hot Jazz Picnic with jazz, flappers, and lessons on how to do the Peabody and Charleston, here are some pics from the Sartorialist.

While I absolutely love the style of the 20's and 30's, the thing I most admire is peoples sense of tact, and decorum. Knowing what was appropriate for the time and situation and dealing with it accordingly. Even gangsters had manners.

"I've been everywhere and seen everything and done everything…Sophisticated - God, I'm sophisticated." -The Great Gatsby

The Vicarious Life

2009-06-13T07:23:00.000-04:00

You all have met my good friend Damien K. Brown

(that's right ladies and gentlemen I only put myself around people who challenge my intellect and reinforce my style but I digress) he has been kind enough to let me use some pictures he took when he visited one of my favorite men's haberdashers in New York Jay Kos. I have to live vicariously through him until I get to NYC myself but here's a brief tour...

His shop isn't really that big in reference to a lot of other shops I've been to but he makes very good use of his space. And as you can see something doesn't have to take up a lot of space to make a lasting impression.

I have nothing but the utmost respect for Kanye West, but I'd definitely pass up on some Kanye LV's to cop some of these.

While I haven't been to his shop yet, I read some reviews that said he can be a little pricey and my rebuttal is you have to pay for quality. Besides you're not going to find the pieces he carries just anywhere. Besides where else are you going to have classic English cuts, Italian styling, and American charm? It's definitely worth stopping by to take a look around and spending time with Mr. Kos.

I mean honestly you have to love a guy who is smooth enough to wear snake skin leather pants and make it look so effortless, talk about real style. Check out an interview Scott Schuman of the Sartorialist did with him. And if you're ever on the upper east side stop in and check him out...I know I will.

988 Lexington Ave
(between 71st St & 72nd St)
New York, NY 10021
(212) 327-2382

Nearest Transit:
68th St (6)

The simple things in life....

2009-06-13T07:08:00.000-04:00

"It's so funny, we get caught up in so many things as human beings and sometimes we forget the simple things in life; the simple things in life get overlooked...the poetry of the project is that no matter how good it looks to people, for me, the taste of cupcakes is worth more than diamonds could ever be"...

The thing that I admire about Pharrell Williams isn't his production skills, or his sense of style, it's his philosophy toward life, he remains humble, and always seems to remember that the clothes, the diamonds (he doesn't wear bling) and the prestige don't define him, they are simply a reflection of who he his. Find yourself...Find your joy.

A tailor and his needle and thread is a artist to his paint brush...Artisty at its best

2009-06-12T08:03:00.000-04:00

There is a difference between individual style and classic style, in both person and brand. The classic brands never go out of style but the individualized style of a brand or its "brand identity" that always gets the critical acclaim. Brands like Brioni have been around for decades and have always dedicated themselves to quality construction, and quality relationship with their clients. I recently came across an article about how they are inspiring some trends today and wanted to show some attention to this wonderful brand. Using some pictures from Brioni: Fifty Years of Style by Cristina Giorgetti

While many in today's sartorial deem Brioni a classic brand I still believe that they maintain a certain level of artistry in their clothing, certainly in quality and construction, but the abstract the avante garde artist still lies there subtly in the tone of color, the width of their lapel, the weave of their fabric.

As we take a look at the visual history it's not hard to see that its always been there, colorful expressive, fun all the while elegant, luxurious, and yes at times opulent, but always unique and ahead of its time. Always beautiful constructed, sometimes with hours upon hours of attention to the details no one may see. A time consuming process that brought each client along for the journey. That's the beauty of clothing to me at least the time that it takes to create it, the skill it takes to make it, and the expression it provides when it's worn. Clothes truly are wearable art.

It's no wonder that Brioni has thousands of young designers and tailors applying to study under masters of this dying art...

Classicly Inspired

2009-06-07T20:04:00.000-04:00

Karl Lagerfeld A/W 09

Beat Artistry

2009-06-05T04:18:00.000-04:00

As an artist of sorts I find beauty in an array of mediums. The creative voice is spontaneous, uninhibited, and not concerned with political correctness, or any other thing that can suffocate the experience...It simply is...it IS open to interpretation, IS not necessarily meant to be understood, IS organic, and Is beautiful.

Jo A is that type of artist...he is a young and upcoming french producer, with a visual sound, I loved watching (as I enjoy watching others) his creative process, the layering of sounds, and effects. I equated it to that of a painter creating a foundation, then adding color, texture, and emotion with each additional stroke. Hope you enjoy it.

"I think music speaks more than Words" < my sentiments exactly

www.myspace.com/joatouch ( the beatmaker)

www.myspace.com/icecrime06 ( the rapper)

contact : thee-ts@hotmail.fr thee-ts@hotmail.fr

A "Display" of Art in Fashion...

2009-06-05T03:03:00.000-04:00

The year Selfridges of London celebrates it's 100 year anniversary.

Sidebar> For those of you who may not know Selfridges is a chain of high end department stores in the United Kingdom. It's Flagship store on Oxford Street is the second largest store in the country only trumped by Harods of London.

100 years of business means 100 years of artful window displays, I was privileged to come across a visual history of their displays from the 1920's to the present here are some of my favorites. The rest can be found on wallpaper

Window displays have always fascinated me in that they have the ability to encapsulate the trends, culture, and mood of the times. While each one of the pieces is unique they all are held together with the thread of expression, visually capturing a time we might not have otherwise seen. I'll call them Visual Time Capsules.

All eyes on me...

2009-06-04T01:30:00.000-04:00

New Mykita Shop in Vienna via selectism

Clown Suit

2009-06-03T11:37:00.000-04:00

Take great care always to be dressed like reasonable people of your own age in the place where you are whose dress is never spoken of as either too negligent or too much studied. -Lord Chesterfield

As the NBA Finals are going to be starting tomorrow night, I'm anticipating not only anticipating the game, I'm also anticipating what NBA correspondent Craig Sager will be wearing throughout the series. Let it be known that I admire Mr. Sager's confidence and personal style...with that said he is a perfect example of being too studied...in modern term too matchy. I used to work at a retail store where fellas would come in and ask for a blue suit, blue shirt, blue tie, blue shoes, and blue socks, and when I offered alternatives such a pink shirt or a complimentary tie I was looked at as if I was an idiot. The most ironic thing was that these same fellas would come in a week later and would pick up a polo with blue, pink, white, and green, or some other complimentary color variation. Listen there is nothing wrong with a Monochromatic look, but always a remember women should match, men should compliment. If wearing a suit there should be something that breaks up the monotony of the colors even if it's something as simple as a white collar, or brown shoes, otherwise it can end up looking like a clown suit. Lastly, while KG's comments were quite funny, I think Kenny Smith's comment was right on point "it's not the individual pieces, it's the individual pieces together." Because I agreed with that here are some examples of pink done right.

It's not your daddy's cognac...

2009-06-03T03:02:00.000-04:00

The past few months I've been delighted by all of the new launches that have taken place with a lot of the classic distilleries. Interestingly enough almost of them have been converted to black, here is one more added to the mix.

Hennessy Black is a unique in that at its inception it actually is a wine with grapes used from where else but Cognac, Italy. It's then distilled twice and stored in old cognac oak cast for a period of 8 years.

Its hand consist of scent of jasmine, daffodils, and orange flowers, delicately mixed with hint of citrus, honey, and fresh grapes.

Definitely sounds like something I need to get my hands on.

Watch and roller

2009-06-03T02:15:00.000-04:00

• Case covered in croc skin
• Nubuck suede lining and removable roll.
• Presented in tissue-lined Nile Blue Smythson box.

$400
Smythson of Bond Street

Looks like a nice Father's Day gift to me.

Got crabs?

2009-06-02T05:13:00.000-04:00

Ingredients

* 3/4 cup ketchup
* 1/2 cup prepared horseradish
* Juice of 1 lemon
* 1/2 teaspoon Tabasco sauce
* 1 1/2 pounds lump crab meat (picked over to eliminate stray pieces of bone or shell)
* 1 head of iceberg lettuce, washed and shredded
* 1/4 teaspoon cayenne pepper
* 1 lemon, cut into 6 wedges

Instructions

1. In a large bowl, combine the ketchup, horseradish, lemon juice, and Tabasco and mix well. (This mixture can be prepared in advance and stored in the fridge until you are ready to assemble the dish.)

2. Gently fold the crab into the seasoned mix. Divide the lettuce among 6 bowls or glasses, and spoon the crab mixture over each. Garnish each with a dash of cayenne pepper and serve with lemon wedges.

I like easy filling dishes like this it makes me feel like I have a some sort of cooking skills and even better it's virtually impossible to mess up.

colin cowie recipes

Closet Essentials

2009-06-02T04:49:00.000-04:00

While I'm attempting to edit my closet for the spring and summer seasons and getting my closet reorganized...here are some tips from lifestyle aficionado Colin Cowie on some closet essentials to keep your to keep you looking your best any and everytime you step out.

PS. Remember if it's been a year and you haven't worn it, get rid of it, because it's probably not that important to you, it's just taking up space, and could be better suited for someone who really needs it.

* Dedicated drawer for watches and jewelry
* Multiple hooks for necklaces, belts, and hats
* Shoe inserts
* Shoe kit (for a quick shine)
* Shoehorn – a long one with a good handle
* A lint brush
* A clothes brush
* A sewing kit and a box to store all spare buttons
* A travel steamer
* Extra laces
* And, of course, a full – length mirror

Desert Storm Form

2009-06-02T04:43:00.000-04:00

Lodger Footwear Desert Boots : Limited Edition

Denim isn't in him...

2009-05-30T06:24:00.000-04:00

Berwich Pants casually elegant.

Wait til I get my money right...

2009-05-30T04:20:00.000-04:00

I always talk with friends about what I'm going to do when I start making money, but motivation without inspiration, and vice versa are simply empty thoughts if we never apply them. I had the pleasure of watching an ABC special Friday night called Get Unbroke hosted by the wonderful Melody Hobson (check her out) which offered some insightful money stacking tips in an entertaining way, check out the above example talking about the difference between stocks and bonds.

It's a funny thing we always think about how to get rich, but with time comes wisdom and eventually money. While there's nothing wrong with aspirations of being a professional athletes, or entertainers lets just make sure when we get there we manage our money right. blessings and enjoy.

Best thing since....Awe you know the rest

2009-05-29T03:14:00.000-04:00

Ironically I'm finding the simplest ideas have some of the greatest returns. Designer Burak Kaynak and Cem Has comes the sliced bread notebook concept, it features 12 numbered "slices" each corresponding with a month of the year, that helps you organizes your thoughts and ideas...Recipe for success? Take two slices of written organized ideas, slather on some smooth and creamy conversation on side, and faith and works that bears good fruity jelly, put em together and...enjoy the sweet taste of success. Aren't you hungry?

Riding in style

2009-05-28T01:37:00.000-04:00

Quoc Pham Cycling Shoes

I have to be honest I've never really been a fan of the whole sneakers with suit look. About a year ago I was on the sartorialist and saw a gentleman with some athletic inspired sneakers which adds a totally different effect. The quality leather, subtle detailing, and narrower design, have undertones that more relatable to moccasins, or dress shoes. This cycling shoes are a perfect example of that effect, instead of having to bring two pair of shoes to the job you can simply throw these on and be fashionably comfortable throughout the day. The patent leather joints particularly caught my eye...looking at them I just keep imagining a debonair gent paired in a midnight blue dinner jacket, so some silk and cashmere tuxedo trousers paired with the patent leather shoes, on a classic ten speed headed to a cocktail party on a terrace, motivated to ride cause the evening was far too beautiful to drive.

Dreaming...

2009-05-27T08:45:00.000-04:00

Aight so the story goes that one of the oldest fashion houses (Lanvin) has been collaborating with Acne jeans for some upcoming projects Acne invited the Lanvin creative team to the launch party for Acne Paper's summer issue, one thing led to another and before you knew it a great concept shoot was birthed, I guess there are really no accidents when it comes to inspiration.

While I consider myself a very social person it's funny that the last few months the whole night life scene has become very mundane and contrive to me, often people acting pretentious or overly eager to be scene and stand out rather than being themselves. Yet intimate scenes like this one with beautiful friends, complimentary taste, all enveloped in beautiful scenery make for memorable occasions that inspire magnificent memories we want to capture forever much like this one...I look forward to soon making this dream a reality...stay tuned.

It's the little things...

2009-05-27T04:36:00.000-04:00

Jsen Wintle’s A/W 09' accessories collection

Coffee Table books...Timeless Transition

2009-05-27T03:59:00.000-04:00

Ask yourself can you really tell what time period these pictures were taken in? I couldn't...that's because True style never gets old and never goes out of style.
Don't follow trends create your own portrait of style.

Manhattan Out by Raymond Depardon

Cuff her...

2009-05-27T03:33:00.000-04:00

18k rose gold

self-winding movement

Like love making time, attention to details, and innovation make the experience all more memorable. Nuff said.

Card Candy...

2009-05-26T05:31:00.000-04:00

J. Fold Card Career

$50.00

Even when your at work, you can play. Express yourself subtly with your accessories.

Eat...DRINK...and be merry.

2009-05-26T04:32:00.000-04:00

$2.99

$9.00

€ 11.50

Every gentleman and lady who entertains knows that anytime you entertain there is always the possibility that there will be those who will not drink. We should always be prepared to accommodate these guest. I suggest having sparkling grape juice on hand the taste is often just as exquisite without providing the alcoholic buzz and if kids are present they can feel like grown ups too. Here are a few suggestions that offer just as much elegance as a bottle of fine wine.

Just make sure you keep the juice away from the happy juice ;).

Art in Motion

2009-05-26T03:13:00.000-04:00

BLOW from JASON LAST on Vimeo.

Art comes in many forms, and mediums I love this piece by Jason Last called blow. I love the effect of fashion and FX, fused with bump of the techno music, the holistic canvas takes you to a total different world of fantasy and possibility. Jouir.

I'm extravagant in ways that relate to my heritage ...the species of tailoring that's threatened by the outside world....

2009-05-25T10:14:00.001-04:00

You have to love old dandies for the sophistication and stubborness when it comes to tact, refinement, and style. I came across this installment of Style Sages on men.style.com and thoroughly enjoyed it. I hope you do as well.

This is how Gentleman wear their denim

2009-05-23T07:17:00.000-04:00

Cheap Monday

$100